by Jared Zimmerman
Over the past academic year, I have had the pleasure of working as a Research Assistant with the Joint Religious Legislative Coalition (JRLC) in my role as a Murphy Scholar with the Terrance J. Murphy Institute for Catholic Thought, Law, and Business (Murphy Institute). The JRLC is an interfaith public policy advocacy group which represents the shared public policy goals of Roman Catholics, Protestants, Jews, and Muslims. One of its central aims is to repeal or modify laws that penalize individuals for marrying—laws that, intentionally or not, discourage people from entering into this lifelong commitment. The JRLC chose this because the right to marry is not only a fundamental right recognized by the Supreme Court of the United States, but also because of the positive outcomes from entering into legally recognized marriages, such as certain tax benefits and increases in happiness.
A significant hurdle to people marrying was identified by the JRLC, during the 2023-2024 Minnesota Legislative Session. Specifically, the JRLC addressed and changed legislation that took food assistance away from people who married. Continuing this work, the JRLC asked its Murphy Scholar research assistants to identify other unjust laws that similarly targeted those who married or wished to marry.
After researching various Minnesota statutes and agency policies, I found a provision within the Minnesota GI Bill. Under current law, if the surviving spouse of a deceased military member remarries, they lose the government-assisted tuition benefits earned by their deceased spouse. In other words, choosing to remarry means forfeiting educational benefits tied to a loved one’s service and sacrifice. I proposed amending the current law, which is now incorporated into Minnesota Senate File (SF) 1959 and Minnesota House File (HF) 2444. My proposed change, which is going for a vote during the 2025-2026 MN Legislative session, allows surviving spouses to remarry without losing their access to tuition assistance.
This issue wasn’t chosen at random. It addressed a clear injustice, and it held political viability—a key factor in any advocacy effort. This topic was chosen because it: (1) addressed a discriminatory action against individuals wishing to become married and (2) it is difficult for legislators to justify being elected if they vote against the spouses of deceased service members who are simply seeking an education. But beyond political calculations, this experience reminded me that real change requires more than good policy—it requires humility, understanding, and a willingness to meet people where they are.
Policy change is often slow and incremental. Yet in this work, I found myself guided by the wisdom of Scripture—especially St. Paul’s words in 1 Corinthians 9:19–22, where he calls us to “become all things to all people” and meet others where they are. For example, amending the Minnesota GI Bill meets people where they are by recognizing and responding with charity and fairness to the challenges faced by surviving spouses of deceased service members. This does not mean to stop zealously advocating for what is true and moral, but being realistic with what it is you are attempting to accomplish. What public policy you advocate for and how you do it looks different depending where you are. For example, how you advocate in Minnesota may look different compared to advocating in Alabama or California.
We want things to take place immediately, and this is a worthy desire, however, as St. Paul writes, we need to meet people where they are. This means listening to people’s concerns, attempting to dissuade and persuade them to why it is you are advocating for a righteous piece of public policy and they should too. When that fails, and it inevitably will at some point, is when we have to compromise and show radical love. Only God knows why things happen the way they do, and while it can be absolutely frustrating, any step forward is a step towards righteous change.
Never stop fighting to uphold the dignity of others—but do not forget the timeless wisdom of St. Paul: meeting people where they are. Meeting people where they are and becoming “all things to all people” has been the greatest privilege of my time with the JRLC.
Jared Zimmerman is a Murphy Scholar and 2L at the University of St. Thomas School of Law in the JD/CSMA program.
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